Posted by Helena Smole in Relationships
on Mar 26th, 2012
I was taking a walk along a river the other day and to my surprise I spotted a swan. I came closer to the river bank nice and slow in order not to scare him off. I started taking pictures of the white creature and to my even bigger surprise, the swan started to swim in my direction. He stopped, when he was close up and seemed to be enjoying being photographed. At some point I felt that enough is enough and I stopped taking photos. The swan swam away.
I felt a telepathic connection with the white animal and was really disappointed, when five local dogs started chasing him, the owners being unable to...
Posted by Helena Smole in Schizoaffective disorder
on Mar 19th, 2012
As mentioned in one of my previous blogs, Joe Kraynak, co-author of ‘Bipolar Disorder for Dummies’, posted his review of my book Balancing the Beast on PsychCentral. Having been reminded again that the expression ‘mental patient’ is offensive I finally took care of my mistake. I must apologize for the content of the book that still awaits a revised edition, but a new cover has been uploaded with the printer and I have also corrected the expression in all web texts. Please let me know, if you should come across any more ‘mental patients’ that I could have left out. I would...
Posted by Helena Smole in Relationships
on Mar 12th, 2012
Do you remember photosynthesis from school? I did not exactly understand it at the age of 12, so I dug deeper into text books and finally got it: »Plants must be the selfless creatures ever.« All they do all their life is work for us. Photosynthesis is a process in which carbon is taken out of the carbon dioxide, that is the gas that we breathe out. This carbon is then built into all sorts of sugars and other carbohydrates that feed us. Oxygen is the byproduct of this process called photosynthesis. Ironically this byproduct made life on earth as we know it possible.
To put it in chemical terms: CO2...
Posted by Helena Smole in Relationships
on Mar 5th, 2012
In my previous blog I compared falling in love to getting a scholarship. It surely is beautiful and nice, if a love relationship begins with being in love. On the contrary, a love relationship arising from friendship might be easier to handle. Why?
Firstly, if your judgment is not blurred by butterflies in your stomach, you are more likely to choose a life partner that goes well with your personality traits. Consequently the necessity to get a divorce later is diminished.
Secondly, there will be no shock at the end of the infatuation phase, when one is faced with the real person instead the...