Posted by Helena Smole in Relationships
on Jun 25th, 2012
The last but one weekend the weather got really hot in Slovenia. I ended up whining again: »Oh, it’s over. No more jogging till September.« Then one morning I went for a walk and while I was approaching our apartment building, someone asked me, if I had been jogging. I replied: »Oh, no. I went for a walk. It’s too hot.« I knew I was only looking for excuses. So I went jogging right afterwards. I had to stop in a shade several times and bow down in order to let the blood supply enough oxygen to my brain. But I did it. Instead of whining I did something.
Whining is well developed in our...
Posted by Helena Smole in Improved self-image
on Jun 18th, 2012
Those of you, who have been reading my blogs for a while now, know that I used to be a volunteer at a local home for old pensioners (assisted living). After 4 years I got tired of volunteering there and I automatically assumed that I was a bad person. On the contrary! I just needed a new job, new problems to solve, I needed to change the subject.
Now I volunteer for a group of organic farmers, because I believe that this is our future. It matters a lot, what we put into our mouths. First I did a translation from German for them, then I helped them pluck weeds and last but not least I helped them...
Posted by Helena Smole in Relationships
on Jun 11th, 2012
The successful people still strive, when everyone else is partying.
They do not care, if they are given labels like: workaholic, weirdo, crazy person etc. Or at least they pretend not to care and they carry on with their projects.
When they succeed, they are not hurt, when other people say to them: »You are so lucky!«
To sum up: the successful people are not hurt or at least they recover quickly, when almost nobody seems to remember the effort they have been putting into their projects. Let alone the scorn they have been exposed to due to their extra effort.
And they almost always have somebody in...