It’s not always easy to get angry at the right person, even in a civilized way. Examples:
-it might be your boss and it is more tactical to stay quiet;
– the person may be dead;
– politicians are hard to reach on personal level;
– etc.
What we should not do is get angry at the next non-expecting fellow that happens to run into us. There is another way – you can transform the anger into physical work or exercise. I remember my father cutting wood and swearing. Well, we did need wood to warm up the house, but I think it was also his outlet for anger. Or my mother flattening steaks by beating them with a special hammer for steaks. Another wonderful outlet for her as well.
No wonder our planet is turning into a cesspit, if it is allowed to pour one’s emotional sewage all over the place!
Take care,
Helena Smole, author of Balancing the Beast, a book offering a bright view of schizoaffective disorder ˗ bipolar or manic-depressive type